I have personally found that the stronger and more confident I become, the easier it gets for me to be able to move on. Of course you still go through emotions as becoming stronger does not equate to becoming colder or more like a robot. I am learning to keep a warm heart with a tough skin. If I am not someone’s first choice, I will certainly become no choice at all. Every moment you waste on someone who is not willing to treat you with the love, respect and kindness that you deserve, you are missing out on a moment with someone who is. Going with the flow is sometimes our only option in life when it comes to things that we do not have any control over, but becoming a door mat is something we do have control over. Stand your ground. Do you have the same expectations for your own relationships and lives that you think others should have?